Monday, April 30, 2007

YOU BETRAYED ME.
AND INVOLVED MY FRIENDS ALSO.
IT WAS UST A RANDOM QUESTION ABT A PHOTO.
AND YOU CAUSED ALL THE TROUBLE.

Saturday, April 28, 2007

despite this short segue into badgers nostalgia, my first and eternal loyalty will always be to the iowa hawkeyes

A University of Wisconsin football player was taken third overall in the NFL draft today. While many of the top picks actually went to New York to attend the draft in person, the Wisconsin player did not, opting instead to go fishing. An aunt of his, however, drove all the way from Germantown, Wisconsin--which, come to think of it, is the most Wisconsin-y town name in the entire state--did:

wisconsin aunt

I forgot to mention this, but when I was in New York City the last time, I joined a former Madison colleague (now at NYU) and went to this bar that apparently pulls out all the stops whenever the Wisconsin Badgers are on television*, including putting a big inflatable Bucky Badger out front:

badger bar in nyc!

I had heard you can find everything in Manhattan, but I wasn't expecting a bar devoted to University of Wisconsin sports. I don't know how many Big 10 schools are represented by comparable venues in NYC.

* Yes, this was the only full evening I had in New York on the trip, and I spent it watching University of Wisconsin basketball on television.

there is no i in wii

Okay, I just set up my Wii and played a game of tennis. This thing is hilarious. I have got to get a second controller and invite you over.

My elbow is a little sore, though, and I just played one game (which is literally one tennis game--not like a set or a match).

Note: Apart from half a semester of graduate school lost to Tomb Raider II, and another half of a semester lost to Ultima VI as an undergraduate, and being astonishingly good at Gorf on my Commodore 64 in seventh grade, I am not a video game player.

Update: Given that my Standard Shorter Loop running takes me within six blocks of the Cambridgeside Galleria, I took a little detour and bought a second controller. So now we can play doubles tennis. They didn't have an extra Nunchuck controller in stock, though, so we still can't box. Anyway, stop by. Let me know if you need any frequent flyer miles.

Friday, April 27, 2007


Joey and shuen on the swing

JOEY!

adeline

we were like so wet!

adeline at my hse

look at my creation.

an accomplishment(:

elaine's hair!

helloo.

im going to blog events frm wed onwards.

WEDNESDAY
chinese teacher came late.
so a few of us left alr.
and so it was considered as "cancelled".
haha.
went heartland with adeline and shuen.
met Joey there .
then had a undecent meal at yoshinoya.
lol.
after tt,
walked to the playground.
which was supposed to be "nearby"
played for a while.
and started raining HEAVILY!
ran all the way back to joey's hse.
we were like so wet!
drenched frm head to toe.
and my shoes were filled with water.
even a fish could survive in my shoe.


stayed at her hse till 7 plus, then left.




THURSDAY
ate with sheevonne and adeline at the school behind there.
then went to the kiddy playground.
played the spinning spinning thing.
so fun!
hahaha.
then adeline came my hse till 6 plus.




FRIDAY
didnt have lit test.
yay!
lol.
elaine came my hse to braid her hair.
i helped her braid.
so proud o myself!(:
haha.
hairdresser!
while walking to the bus stop where elaine was ,
i slipped on the drain cover.
and fell.
and it was super embarassing!
went for cell at night with joanne.
cell at nathaniel's hse.
which is so far away.
and had to climb up this hill.
lol.
i had to do this
spiderman doing banana dance action.
which was so stupid!
lucky there was a picture of a banana.
or not how to do banana dance!
haha
cell ended at 10 plus.
and had to walk down that hill agn.
RAHRAHRAH.
took bus to dhoby ghaut.
and reached home arnd 12.10am +++
and the condo was so dark.
they switched off the lights la.
RAH.





SAT:kaleidoscope with kevin today.

the technology giveth, the technology taketh away

The other night I marveled at the miracles of this world as I rode in a subway car that contained ads for both laser hair removal and laser hair restoration.

Unrelated: I made some small changes to my Blogger template. But I can't figure out how to modify the "Labels" part of the post to make it small like the byline. Does anyone know how to do this without having to upgrade one's template to the new Blogger layouts?

Wednesday, April 25, 2007

a couple days ago i posted a good opening paragraph from an article; today, a good opening sentence

"In comparison with research on other psychological problems, research on the nature of procrastination began relatively late, in the 1980s." -- "Procrastination in Academic Settings: General Introduction", Henri C. Schouwenburg, 2004

how to promote your book of short stories online

At least here is one interesting idea, by Miranda July.

Tuesday, April 24, 2007

mobius trip

I've posted before about my tendency go through brief but intense phases where I listen to the same song over and over and over again. I'm currently doing this with Amy Winehouse's "Rehab." I think I find there to be something recursively pleasing about addictively listening to a song about addiction.

BTW, as a shout of to fans of replicators everywhere, it's National DNA Day today. (And, for our antipodal friends, it's also ANZAC day.) Cambridge is having this science festival for which they advertised a special 2-mile genome walk, but as far as I can tell it's just these red and blue gene-ly banners with chromosome numbers hanging from lightposts at intervals between Kendall and Harvard square.

the only way we can turn this company around is to make a product sufficiently addictive as to undermine career aspirations and family life

From CNN.com story on the Wii:
Nintendo's turnaround began five years ago, when the company's top strategists, including CEO Satoru Iwata and legendary game designer Shigeru Miyamoto, zeroed in on two troubling trends: As young consumers started careers and families, they gradually cut back on game time. And as consoles became more powerful, making games for them got more expensive.
havent been blogging for 1234567890987654321 years.
so anyway,
there isnt much to blog abt.


lol


i've just restricted friendster profile to friends only(:
yep.


so, like MYE starts next week.
plus,i'll be going overseas in june.
RAHHH.







don't think i'll be updating that frequently.
ya.
and BAN!DO THE BLOG TEMPLATE,
DO UNTIL GO WHERE ALR HUH!?!
lol.

Monday, April 23, 2007

wiinner!

wiinner!

Other than some additions to my Magic 8-ball collection, I've never been able to buy anything on eBay because of my fear of the winner's curse--the idea that the person who "wins" an auction is the person who most ridiculously overvalues the thing being auctioned off. But, I cast all that aside and bought the very first Wii I bid on, with the very first bid I made. I am not going to share the price, so I can remain ignorant as to the degree to which I overpaid. I didn't seem inconsistent with my brief inspection of prevailing rates, and was definitely efficient.

one way of getting me to read the rest of an article is to have the first paragraph be a capsule summary of a large swath of my life

"In this lecture I shall focus on situations involving repeated decisions with time-inconsistent behavior. Although each choice may be close to maximizing and therefore result in only small losses, the cumulative effect of a series of repeated errors may be quite large. Thus, in my examples, decision makers are quite close to the intelligent, well-informed individuals usually assumed in economic analysis, but cumulatively they make seriously wrong decisions that do not occure in standard textbook economics." -- George A. Akerlof, "Procrastination and Obedience," American Economic Review, 1991.

coincidence, or causality?

From CNN.com:
ASHBURN, Georgia (CNN) -- Students of Turner County High School started what they hope will become a new tradition: Black and white students attended the prom together for the first time on Saturday.

In previous years, parents had organized private, segregated dances for students of the school in rural Ashburn, Georgia, 160 miles south of Atlanta.

[...]Mindy Bryan, attended a segregated prom in 2001.

"There was not anybody that I can remember that was black," she said. "The white people have theirs, and the black people have theirs. It's nothing racial at all."
I hope one of the songs is Prince singing about how "Tonight we're gonna party like it's 1969."

Saturday, April 21, 2007

postscript

"That post where somebody said, 'What else are you doing besides not listening to me?'--that was me, right?"
"What? No? I don't remember you ever saying this to me."
"I say this to you all the time."
"You've never--"
"All the time."
"Well, apparently you've been right each time that I wasn't listening to you."

Friday, April 20, 2007

semicircumgooglequest denied!

googleocean

People are passing around news of this feature on Google Maps where you can get driving directions from the US to Europe, so long as you are willing to swim across the Atlantic Ocean (see Chris). I tried to see if I could get it to stretch halfway across the globe (12,450 miles). Given actual work to do, I had to abandon the expedition only 120 miles from my goal. So close!

Thursday, April 19, 2007

by comparison, last year 700 americans were killed by poisonous gases



Via Kristina via Eszter. I wanted to look at the comparable graphs for economics and anthropology, but couldn't figure out how to get the NSF web software to produce it.

Update: Tom B sent me a link to the numbers for economics. (Thanks also to Nan and Kim for sending these numbers to me as well.)

among the more seemingly futile questions

"So, what else are you doing besides not listening to me?"

Wednesday, April 18, 2007

six floors under

UW anthropology homepage

Anthropology at the University of Wisconsin is divided into three areas: archeology, biological anthropology, and cultural anthropology. The image on their homepage is divided into three parts, with pictures standing in for each of the three areas. Am I the only one who thinks it is strange that, for archeology, the selected picture is a grave with "ARCHEOLOGIST" written on it? I don't know anything about archeology at UW, and I don't know if that choice of image is intended to convey anything or not.

what predicts how much coverage a tragedy gets?

iraq and virginia tech

So, the New York Times is currently running stories on its front page about 32 students and faculty at Virginia Tech being murdered and 160 citizens of Iraq being murdered. Enormous tragedies, all, obviously. Yet, the VT shootings will presumably get at least 10x--and perhaps more like 100x--the total column inches of coverage in the NYT than these Iraq bombings will get (indeed, a telling part of the coverage of Iraq bombings is how commonly and easily they are lumped together).

I'm not making any judgment on the wrongness or rightness of this as a journalistic practice, but: I've always thought it would be interesting to do a study of the relationship between the number of deaths in a tragic event and the number of column inches a story gets, and then what are the other factors that lead events to get more or less coverage.

Even just for the deaths of individual soldiers, I think it would be an interesting graph to see how (I presume) coverage of individual soldier deaths has declined as the war has gone on, despite the rate of soldier deaths being, if anything, remarkable for their relative consistency over time.

I'm presuming there is research on this and it's more that I'm not aware of it. If anyone is and has pointers to finding it, let me know.

Tuesday, April 17, 2007

left behind

I just took a break here in the office by reading the whole of Anthropology: 101 True Love Stories by Dan Rhodes. The stories are all around 100-150 words, and while some of them turn a too much on a cutely warped last sentence, the book on the whole is a fun bag of prose popcorn that is well worth the forty-five minutes it takes to devour it. Anyway, as I don't have any great ideas for posts and the continued rain in Cambridge brings out a melancholic turn, I'll instead here promote the book by reproducing three of the stories about being dumped:
Xanthe left me. I found out her new address and returned the kettle she had left behind. The next day I took her a book she had lent me. I found a box of hairgrips, and delivered one each day. If she wasn't home I would post it with a long letter explaining how I had found it on the floor. When I had returned them all, I took her, on the tip of my finger, a tiny ball of dust. "I remember seeing it fall from your dress one afternoon," I said, "The pretty one, with the flowers on it."

After Firefly left me I presented her with a video recording I had made of myself, so if she ever felt down she could be reminded that there was somebody out there who loved her more than anything in the world. I met her in the street, and asked her if she ever watched it. She said she did, and that it always cheered her up. She told me she particularly liked the part where I kissed and caressed the tiny black skirt she had left behind, and cried like a new-born baby. She said that always made her smile.

Treasure left me. "I'm so sorry," she said. "I understand how awful you must feel." Choking, I told her she couldn't begin to understand. She insisted that she could. "You know you'll never find anyone as pretty as me," she explained, "or as nice, and your every moment will be clouded by nagging recollections of times we spent together; times when you wrongly believed we had some kind of future. Believe me, I understand." she said, gently." A part of you has died, the part capable of loving and trusting, and you know you'll never get it back. Stuff like that."
BTW, for the trip to Madison, I was going to bring my jacket, but then because the forecast called for several inches of snow I decided to bring my big winter coat instead. While the snowstorm did strand me in Detroit for several hours, I never wore the coat during my visit. Several times I wished I had my jacket, but chose being cold to cavorting around in the cumbersome coat. Last night, as my flight from Detroit to Boston was taking off, I realized I had left my coat in the in the overhead bin of the plane going from Madison to Detroit. Story of my life.

Monday, April 16, 2007

wiijected

The big plan hatched on Wednesday night was to have a Nintendo Wii boxing tournament while I was back in Madison. We sent out invitations Thursday for a Sunday party--to a mixed group of people ranging from a couple who have been here thirty years to someone who's only been here three weeks--and we received 20 RSVP yeses. Only on Saturday, though, did I get around to the matter of actually trying to purchase the Wii. I had just been presumed that, where there's a will, there's a Wii, especially around here, since you can't spell "Wisconsin" without "Wii." Instead, a massive wiisearch campaign resulted in our learning there is not a single Wii for sale within 100 mile circle around Madison. Efforts to rent or borrow a Wii also proved fruitless, or at least not until after we sent out the announcement to postpone the party.

We're hoping to reschedule for Memorial Day weekend, when I'll be in Madison for the Mad City (Half) Marathon and the spring 2007 edition of the World's Largest Brat Fest.

The spring 2004 WLBF, btw, was what broke me of five years of pescatarianism (a pescatarian is someone who would be a vegetarian except they eat seafood). Many lapsed vegetarians/pescatarians have some story about being tempted by being in a group of people at a party or a picnic or someone occasion where it would be really awkward to turn down meat. Me, it was that I had to drive by the WLBF on my way to and fro work, and the afternoon of its last day I just pulled into the parking lot and had two bratwurst with mustard all by myself. Even aside from various concerns about the content of bratwurst, it's a weird food to have crush one's pescatarian will, because vegetarian faux bratwurst is a very close substitute for the real thing. (Indeed, according to the WLBF website, this year for the first time they will be serving vegetarian brats for the first time. If only they had done this three years earlier, who knows how many animals lives would have been spared the unhappy fate of being shoved down my postpescatarian gullet.)

Sunday, April 15, 2007


my beautiful chain


the place where we celebrated your bday at.





that box was damn heavy and was so huge and in the way.
imagine carrying it arnd for 123456789098765432 miles(:
but i, or we, still did it(:(:(:(:


Hellooo.


Friday:
Had 2.4 km run.
frankie koh didnt come.
went home after the run.
and mrs ong sent me all the way out to the crossing.
then i took cab.
reached home at 9.40am
stayed at home after tt.


Saturday:
waited for kevin ban for 1 hr and 20 minutes.
ONE HOUR AND TWENTY MINUTES.
like an idiot at dhoby ghaut.
like wth la.
then took bus to indoor stadium.
couldnt get in.
and we walked in the rain.
so, in the end.
went with him to his hse.
waited outside for him to finish his stuff.
and bathe.
went to tiong bahru after tt.
and went home.
**(cut-short)



TODAY:
left my hse at 11.
went with elaine ee to suntec.
walked arnd trying to look for the BIG BIRD!
apparently, i went to 5 places in total.
and DONT HAVE!
elaine ee kept nagging.
nag abt walking, being late, donuts and taxi.
wahhhhhhhhhhh.
EH, ELAINE! I JUST REALISED MY EAR NO MORE ECHO!
WHEN DID IT STOP? LOL
and so we bought her present.
after 1234567890234567890 miles of walking.
AND DID NOT MANAGE TO GET BIG BIRD,
COS SINGAPORE DOESNT HAVE IT.
lol.


so we took train to angmokio,
and cabbed to grace's hse.
things happened.
and i went to the playground.
Thunder and lightning.
and went back to grace's hse to collect my things.
after tt, we all left.
yep.
tt's abt all.

Friday, April 13, 2007

there are only two kinds of "im sorry"
with no other kind in between.
There's one that someone asks you to say,
and the one that you really mean.



Kevin B.,
what really is your motive.?
causing problems to break up my friendship?.
or trying to create a big scene?.
Like you said,
To become high profile.
Is that what your trying to achieve?
stop telling people a thing,
and telling me another.
You two-headed snake.
stop saying that others are cunning,
and that they always lie.
how about you man?
what's your motive abt telling me all those bad stuff abt her.?
trying to make me stay away frm her.

if she heard what you've said abt her,
abt them, abt him,
why you want to go out with them,
cause being high profiled is so great,
tell me what she'll or they'll even think abt you?


stop using such means to acheive your aims.
cos that's so despicable.
face the problem,
stop hiding,
stop avoiding,
stop LYING TO EVERYONE,
telling a different story altogether,
if you have the balls.
That is , if you have them.

Thursday, April 12, 2007

fun back in middle america

I hang out with Sal for less than a couple hours on Wednesday night, and that was all it took for me to be committed to a festive idea for this weekend that promises to involve me spending several hundred dollars and perhaps a mild amount of dignity. Stay tuned.

Before getting together with Sal, I got together with another friend who, in place of whatever highbrow leisure pursuit, really wanted to play whack-a-mole. My replying that I didn't know where one could play whack-a-mole in Madison was met immediately with "Chuck E. Cheese." I had never been in a Chuck E. Cheese before--indeed, I was pretty ignorant about the entire "Chuck E. Cheese" concept--but sure enough, they have whack-a-mole:

whack a mole!

And, better still, skee-ball:

skeeball!

And, better still, pop-a-shot:

pop-a-shot!

And we were there late enough on a school night that there were few actual kids there. Those that were seemed only interested in the video games. Alas: no wonder you never see Americans taking home the gold medal in skee-ball anymore.

(Thursday night I drove from Madison to Evanston, where I'll be spending the day Friday and then returning to Madison on Friday night.)

super kiwi cloak!

Someone has created an improved version of the "Kiwi Cloak" Firefox script that Lucy and I "made" (by doing some simple modifications to someone else's script). The script is an anticrastination tool that works by shutting you out of websites you specify (e.g., GMail) except for a window you specify (e.g., the first ten minutes of the hour). As the person describes the update:
I've updated the script so that it now functions across hours (ie, you can make the window go from :55 to :05). It will also no longer have problems with midnight (for all you night owls). Finally, I cleaned up the "minutes left" errors.

You can find the updated script (as "Super Kiwi Cloak") at http://userscripts.org/scripts/show/8448.








SPORTS DAY TODAY.
Photo 1 & 2: JASMINE THINKS SHE'S SO CUTE!
photo 3: SHUEN!
photo 4: Credits to hillary


NEVER ONCE DID I PAY ATTENTION TO THE RACE(:
all my years in pl.
haha.

sat at the top at first.(EVERY YEAR)
then halfway thru the thing,
shifted down with sit with jasmine and ppl.
haha.
JASMINE thinks she so cute.
and goes arnd sending smses to her own phone.
which reads "I LOVE YOU COS UR SO CUTE AND ADORABLE".
and she sings non stop!
but I LOVE HER COS SHE FANNED ME(:(:(:(:(:


hahs.
went out with shuen after the whole thing.
went to buy things(:

Wednesday, April 11, 2007

dispatch from the detroit airport

Because of the snow lamented in the last post, the Detroit-to-Madison leg of my flight was cancelled and I have been stranded in the Detroit airport for the past 5 1/2 hours. The flight on which I was rebooked looks like it might actually leave approximately on time, and people have been crowded right around the gate for at least the last half hour. I would think would be for some demented person to shout "There's a gremlin on the wing! They're going to cancel this flight, too!" in order for them to riot.

I can't believe I booked a spring trip to Madison and they went ahead and held a snowstorm anyway.

Tuesday, April 10, 2007

wwol: week six update

wwol: week-6

I would seem to be operating under some unusual definition of the word "week," as I have skipped around my weigh-in date for my diet from Friday to Sunday to Tuesday. All I can say is, traveling makes the details of tracking-based dieting difficult, although I have stayed reasonably consistent with the system. I'm out of Cambridge the next six days, and have little pretense of renewed diligence until I return. At least I'm down another fraction of a pound, continuing my streak of posting losses each week.

Being on this diet has definitely been good for me, and I strongly suspect I wouldn't be sticking with it even as modestly well as I am if I didn't know I was accountable to posting about my progress on this blog. So, I owe you one.

Also: Decorum prevents me from using language vivid enough to express how I feel about this:

snow forecast

This whole winter thing has got to end.

shout-out to the birthday girl!


(my mother and me, on a road trip in the early days of this weblog)

My mother turns 71 today. When my mother was my age, her sixth child was already over a year old and showing signs of being alternately the shyest and the most talkative member of the family.

On a related front, I learned last week that the father of a chair of a sociology department on the East Coast worked at the same meatpacking plant that my father did, and has a nephew that lives in my hometown. I'm used to sociology being a small world and rural Iowa being a small world, but not those two small world colliding.

Monday, April 9, 2007

views of sociology from beyond this world

So, the recent Pacific Sociological Association meetings hosted a panel entitled "Pirate Professors, Deviant Departments, and Disappeared Programs." Via Jeff, here are the titles listed in the program for four of the five papers:
"Views of Education from Beyond this World" - Emails and Conversations with my Dearly Departed Mentor 'Boz'

Educating Astrosociologists: The Need to Bring Outer Space Into Social Science Classrooms

The Denial of Educational & Employment Opportunity Due to the Discovery of Evidence Contradictory to the Axiomatic Assumption of Harmlessness of High Demand Religious Movements: A Case Study of the Normative Negation of Conflict of Interest from Australia.

[!!] The Fascist Trend in American Academe: "Disappearing" Sociology at Niagara University, New York
Jeff apparently found these titles not exactly inspiring. Imagine that! Comments on his post include Jeff reposting a couple of e-mails received from participants on the panel, one of whom thought it appropriate to cc: various faculty in Jeff's department and close with:
Well, in a few years, when this angst-driven 30-something comes to us for some sort of connection, we'll be sure to remember. In addition, the realities of the sociological job market ought to throw him off that high horse he is riding when he isn't riding a barstool in Berkeley coffeeshops. Right now, I'd just love to get put on his thesis committee to help straighten him out.
I think the foregoing probably speaks for itself with no need for additional commentary from me. So instead I'll just pine for the idea of changing International Talk Like A Pirate Day to International Talk Like A Pirate Professor Day. "Today I will lecture ye on astrosociology! Argh! How do I advance me Powerpoint slides with just a hook for me hand!"

Sunday, April 8, 2007

got this from blogthings.com




Your Birthdate: December 14

People wouldn't take you for a passionate person - and that's where they'd be wrong.
You can develop deep emotions quickly, and you're the type most likely to move in with someone after a few dates.

Number of True Loves You'll Have: 6

Number of Times You'll Have Your Heart Broken: 3

You are most compatible with people born on the 5th, 14th, and 23rd of the month.




Your True Love Will Find You Eventually
You definitely put yourself out there a little - but you could be doing more.If you're truly looking for love, try doing more things and meeting more people.You don't have to actively look for love, you just need to stay active.Be out there a little more, and the right person will find you!




You Are 61% Grown Up, 39% Kid
Congratulations, you are definitely quite emotionally mature.Although you have your moments of moodiness, you're usually stable and level headed.




You Are Confident Sexy
You're one sexy chica, and you know it.You've got the confidence to strut your stuff...And approach any man who happens to catch your eye.You may make a guys run away, but the true men will appreciate your moxie.



Your Personality Is
Idealist (NF)

You are a passionate, caring, and unique person.You are good at expressing yourself and sharing your ideals.
You are the most compassionate of all types and connect with others easily.Your heart tends to rule you. You can't make decisions without considering feelings.
You seek out other empathetic people to befriend.Truth and authenticity matters in your friendships.
In love, you give everything you have to relationships. You fall in love easily.
At work, you crave personal expression and meaning in your career.
With others, you communicate well. You can spend all night talking with someone.
As far as your looks go, you've likely taken the time to develop your own personal style.
On weekends, you like to be with others. Charity work is also a favorite pastime of yours.



Your Porn Star Name Is...
Ruby Lips



You Are Thong Panties
Woman, you are one hell of a ride!You're a total wild child - and you live for crazy times.Men are attracted to you like flies to honey, even though they know they should stay away.You need a expert cowboy who can keep in tune with your free spirit!



Your Love Type: INFJ
The Protector
In love, you strive to have the perfect relationship.For you, sex is nearly a spiritual experience, a bonding of souls.
Overall, you have high expectations for any relationship you're in.However, you tend to hold back a part of yourself.
Best matches: ENTP and ENFP



You Are A Romantic Realist
You tend to be grounded when it comes to romance.Sure, you can fall hard... but only for someone you've gotten to know.And once you're in love, you can be a total romantic goofball...But you'd never admit it to your friends!



You Are Pretty Happy
You generally have a happy, fulfilling life. But things could be a little better, and deep down, you know it.Maybe you need more supportive friends or a more challenging career.Something is preventing you from being totally happy. You just need to figure out what it is!



You Are 24% Control Freak
You have achieved the perfect balance of control and letting go.You tend to roll with whatever life brings, but you never get complacent.



Guys Like That You're Fun
You're the type of girl guys brag about knowingThat's because you're cool, funny, and laid backYou're smart enough to know how to be one of the guysBut flirty enough to know how to make them all want you



Your Lucky Underwear is Blue
You are caring and extroverted. You've made relationships your number one focus, and your lucky blue underwear can bring some balance to them.You thrive in one-on-one situations. You are a good listener and a natural born therapist.
Sometimes you let the concerns of others become too important in your life, leading to stress and worry.If you want more balance, put on your blue underpants. They'll help you take care of yourself first.



Your Seduction Style: Prized Object
The seduction game you play is tried, true, and still effective: hard to get.You know that the best seducers turn the tables - and get their crush to seduce them.The one running has the power, and you're a challenge that is worth the chase.
You are a master of enticing and pulling back. Giving a little and taking some away.You are controlled enough to know rewards come after a long seduction dance.Even though you want to call, email, or say "I love you" first - you don't!
You're style is the perfect mix of hot and cold - so much so that you have many suitors.Think Holly Golightly from Breakfast at Tiffany's ... or any of those creepy guys from the Bachelor.You're skilled at inspiring a chase. The real test is picking the person to slow down for.



Your Nail Polish Color is Magenta
How you're unique: You're confident - and you show everyone the true you
Why your style rocks: You have the attitude to carry the most outrageous outfits off
What this color says about you: "Look at me. I know you want to!"


You Are a Soft Kisser
Your kissing style is understated, but effective
You give soft, sweet, and soulful kisses.
And the key is, you only give kisses to someone incredibly special
Because you don't just go around kissing anyone


Your Makeup Look Is
Pale Lips with Big EyesA little classic, a little retro - you look fantastic in this high fashion look.







Doesn't Look Like Cheating, But Be Careful
Chances are greater than not that your guy's not cheating...But there's always the possibility that he's a pro at covering things upThe best thing you can do for now is listen to your intuitionIf it seems like he's cheating, he probably is... unless you suspect every guy you date



What You Know About Your Guy: Very Little
Your guy is still a huge mystery to you(Hopefully, you at least know his last name!)If you have only been on a few dates, then this is okayBut otherwise, it's time to do some digging



You're a Tad Jealous
And who can blame you? It's a pretty normal emotion.You tend to keep your jealousy under wraps, except when it mattersYou have a good nose for telling if your own jealousy is petty or justifiedBut occasionally, you do let your passionate envy get the better of you



You Should Own a Yorkshire Terrier
Lively, sweet, and easy to carry.






aiya, tired alr la.
continue another day.